The Do's & Dont's to Create Inner Peace
We need inner peace. Today, we are overworked, overstressed and overwhelmed. The pace of life is faster than ever. The economic, social and political stresses are all creating internal and external turmoil.
How do these problems affect us? We feel continuously rushed and our lifestyles are out of balance. Many of us have a hard time sleeping, breathing or even properly digesting our food. More of us experience serious health conditions such as heart disease, cancer and drug addiction.
Our relationships with ourselves and others are affected and with that, our sense of enjoyment and appreciation of life. The costs are very high; we lack peace, happiness and true fulfillment.
Mindfulness is a very effective tool for creating inner peace and balance.
What Is Mindfulness?
Mindfulness is the art of attention and awareness. It lives in the present moment which is the only moment we have. It is a form of nonjudgmental, relaxed awareness that guides you to inner peace.
When we are mindful, we are paying attention on purpose to the contents of the current moment, including our emotions and environment.
Benefits of Mindfulness & Inner Peace
Mindfulness provides us with a sense of inner peace, focus and balance. It teaches us detachment from inner drama and harsh judgements. Through mindfulness, we learn to allow things to simply be, rather than trying to control, resist or fix everything around us. However, letting life be and embracing inner peace does not mean not being proactive. When we’re mindful, it helps us create clearer vision and better judgement. It helps us to live in the moment and enjoy it.
We become more receptive to what is and as a result we take appropriate, organic and authentic actions, moving towards our true fulfillment. Mindfulness and inner peace quiets the compulsive mind and creates an expanded way of looking at life. It relaxes our physical being and supports the natural healing process of the body.
Here are the Do’s and Don’ts of how to cultivate mindfulness and support a state of inner peace, focus and balance.
Observe and Don’t Judge
We learn to observe rather than judge. Most of us operate from a place of worry, anxiety and judgment of ourselves and others. This state of mind is preventing us from accepting, receiving and enjoying life. Observing or witnessing, teaches us to relax, accept and drop judgment. As a result, our state of being shifts to a more peaceful one.
Notice your “Monkey Mind”
Our Monkey Mind is part of our Defensive Self. It is relentlessly commenting on everything we encounter. It pushes us to file things in drawers according to categories. We have the “good” drawers and “bad” drawers in our mind. There we collect our likes and dislikes.
As we go through life, we are constantly bouncing between rejection and attachment, jumping from the future to the past – and back again. This reactive way of being does not allow for mindfulness, receptive observation, awareness, and inner peace.
It is most important to begin to observe this kind of obsessive and compulsive thinking. If you are a meditator, you know how hard it is to relax and find inner peace. It takes practice.
But the first step is to notice it, and identify the action and impact of it. As you grow your mindfulness practice, you can learn to slow down and relax your restless mind.
Learn a Healthy Detachment from the Inner Drama
The twin-sister of the Monkey Mind is “Emotional Drama.” Emotional Drama is the inner turmoil of contradicting, conflicting and painful emotions that swirl around and torment us. This can happen in relation to a past or present event.
Most of the time, it touches on a pool of unresolved emotional experiences of the past. So, how do we handle our inner drama? An important aspect is to learn how to identity it and witness our emotional reactions with a sense of compassion and a healthy detachment.
Treat your emotions as you would a child that you love. Allow yourself to experience them and move through them, so that you can find a way beyond. Remember, you have emotions, but you are not your emotions. You are the witness and the healer of them.
Set Up a Daily Mindfulness Meditation Practice
Because of the pressures we experience in life, it is hard to find a moment to ourselves. On the other hand, if we don’t find quiet and stillness, our lives become more complicated and spin further out of balance. There are many ways to carve out time to meditate.
Exercise, yoga, cleaning your house, or merely sitting on a bench to watch the sky – these activities are ways to find inner peace. The most important element is your ability to quiet the mind, ground your body in your breath, and be mindful in the moment.
Teach Yourself to Live in the Moment
We are never “in the moment.” Our thoughts are always pulling us in different directions. We obsess over what we must do, going through past and future dialogues, projecting and worrying about the future. We have lost the ability to be fully engaged in the present moment.
Deep down, we all long to experience and enjoy every moment we have. On some level, we need to become more like children and train ourselves to smell the roses and appreciate the simple things in life. Inner peace starts with aiming to cultivate the most basic right of life – enjoyment!
Do Not Feed the Habit of Obsessive Worry
Simply put – we worry too much. It is an ingrained habit rooted in the basic fear of survival. It robs us of our energy, imagination and creativity. Treat it as a bad habit.
Commit to shedding worry, slowly and surely, just as you would junk food. Become mindful when you are engaging in worry, and talk yourself out of it. Drop it as you would your “Monkey Mind."
Do Not Encourage an Imbalanced Lifestyle
It’s an obvious point that balance is supremely important – balance between doing and resting, work and play, physical and mental, or spiritual and practical. Healthy living means balanced living.
Become mindful of this very notion, and stay committed to maintaining balance in all areas of your life. It is not an easy task. But if your health and peace of mind are a priority, you will find a way to achieve inner peace.
Do Not Harshly Judge Yourself and Others
Harsh judgment of ourselves or others causes emotional pain which translates to stress in the body and sadness in the heart. Become mindful of your judgments and their impact on you and others.
Teach yourself to become more accepting, compassionate and loving. These characteristics will help you grow and love deeper.
Do Not Reinforce the Habit of Stress and Unhealthy Control
It is obvious that stress and the need to control the uncontrollable imprisons us. Use the practice of mindfulness meditation to notice the stress in your body, and learn to release it by using your breath, gentle movements of the neck, shoulders and lower back.
Commit to relaxing, resting and playing. Self-guide to cultivate a healthy perspective in life. Nothing is so important that it deserves to make us unhappy and sick.
Do Not Rush Through the Moments of Your Life
You only get one life to live in this form, in this body, now. Embrace it! Each moment is a gift, and you deserve to open to the moment, and live it with enjoyment.
What stresses you out? Have you incorporated a mindfulness practice in your life? Do you feel overwhelmed and overstressed sometimes?
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